Another point I’d like to bring up is why we chose sides to begin with. The best answer I can come up is because of wherever YOUR BIAS is. There are other reasons I’m sure, but this one stands out like a sore thumb to me. For example if your favorite member is Jaejoong, Yoochun, or Junsu then naturally you’ll side with JYJ. If your favorite member is Yunho or Changmin then you’re most likely going to side with HoMin. As far as OT5 goes, they may not have a bias because they love all members equally. Or they can have a bias, but still just support all sides just like they did prior to the seperation. I fall into this general category as my bias is Changmin, but I’m not a HoMin stan. This may not be so when it comes to newbie fans because they haven’t been around long enough to know the history of TVXQ/JYJ–or if they’d even be interested for that matter. But even OT5 stans can get misinterpreted for siding with a certain side if they have a bias. Sometimes I had thought that about a few fans. ^^;; This also may be the reason for some arguments among fans: they feel their bias is threatened whenever they’re talked about in a bad way. But this can lead to the said members being hurt in the process from our constant bickering among each other. Trying to protect them may backfire. I wanted to put this into a way where I could use a Greek tragedy to describe it, but I don’t know how. But I shall try! There is a tragedy about a woman named Medea who was so very much in love with her husband. One day, her husband did her wrong by marrying someone esle, saying it would be for the best. She was so distraught that she killed his new wife, that wife’s father, and the children that Medea and her husband had. I wanted to say that fans have a ‘Medea complex’ when it comes to their biases (whether it’s in TVXQ, another fandom, or if they’re fictional).
Since we’re on the topic of Greek stories, I have another tidbit about our fandom’s name. We are called Cassiopeia, right? Do you know about her? I’m sure I had said this in a previous post, but she is considered a VAIN QUEEN. The ‘W’ in the sky is her sitting in a chair upside-down as punishment for her vanity. Maybe that does fit our description, huh? We boasted that we were the best fanclub, and now look at us: dragging what shredded remains of our fandom and our members through the mud.
In summary, it get’s really agitating when fans fight within their own fandom. It turns some fans away when it happens. JYJ fans need to calm down, and all sides do need to stop saying hateful things to one another. Two wrongs don’t make a right. I know that this part may take a long time since mean things do evoke us to say something back (I’m just as guilty as you are). Lately, I try to steer away from any of these arguments. But as a Leo likes drama, I’m attracted to it and want to make my side of the discussion known. XD I think that a fan’s bias has a general role to play in their actions as well. In addition, I’d also like to say that the members themselves may need a good slap on the wrist for putting us through all of this. ^^;;
So, with all that said…what kind of fan are you?
1 comments:
- charlenesaid…
- Interesting Post ~Myndless~I’m getting ready to cart it to JYJ Fantalk. Wow! You write so expressively. You know, I guess I am just a loving Momma who cares for all five but feels closest to JYJ because of accessibility and their personalities. If they were all back together I would love them all with just a teeny-tiny lean toward Junsu,Yoochun and Jae :), but that is the way it is right now so it really wouldn’t be much different. I guess you could say that I would try my best to treat them the same. As to the music–JYJ’s has one dynamic for me, and HoMin’s has another dynamic. Depending upon my mood–either is wonderful. I hope you don’t mind sharing because I love you too. <3 Cha
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